Depression with Haram Relationship: The solution is to return to God

Mitu and Mili are both roommates and classmates at the same time.  Although there is some similarity in the name, there is no similarity in their work.  The lifestyle of the two is different.  The rest of the female members of the hostel are quite skeptical about whether they have the same mind.

 Mitu is the only daughter of a rich father with a very happy and lively nature.  Although the father has performed Hajj several times, there is no harm in religion in the daughter.  No, she's not an atheist, she's a little modern and a bit of a feminist.

 Millie, on the other hand, is a girl from a very simple, middle-class religious family.  Mili tries to obey almost all the rules and regulations of the religion.

 Mili Rose calls Mitu in the Fajr prayers to pray.  Mitu says I will start prayers every day from tomorrow.  Please don't bother me today, let me sleep.  Mitu's Asena prayers are not started at that time.  Yet Millie calls him every day in the hope that one day God will guide him.

 How can Mitu get up for Fajr prayers? Boyfriend has to give her time till many nights. She goes to bed at around 3 o'clock.  And I woke up at 12 o'clock.

 Ronnie Mitu's boyfriend. They have been in a relationship for almost a year.  Mili's headache with this relationship of Mitu.

 On this day, on the occasion of the one-year anniversary of the relationship, Mitu returned to the hostel in the evening after watching a movie in the park, restaurant and cinema hall with her boyfriend.  Millie was studying with her mind.  Coming from outside, Mitu laid the tired body on the bed.  Lying down, he was scrolling through the phone and wondering how Millie's life was.  Now is the time to have fun.  Nah and no funny group on Facebook, adult group, 18+ group also has no ads.

 Mitu has many fans.  He has picked up a lot with Ronnie all day today.  Mitu picked some good pics and uploaded them on Facebook.  At the same time, he did not forget to express his love by writing 2-4 lines.  Ah, let's see how deeply everyone loves them.  Millie said as if she came to like Mitu's post.

  Millie closed the book and turned on the data. After a while, Mitu's intention was to say that you are having a haram relationship, there is nothing to show off on social media.  You should be ashamed.  Because even though you are a girl from a Muslim family, you are continuing to commit a haraam act day after day.  The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: “Fornication with two eyes is bad / fornication is for seeing something, fornication for two ears is bad for hearing something.  Obscene thinking and shame completes it or keeps it incomplete. (Sahih Muslim: 2657)

 Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning): And do not approach fornication, surely it is an indecency and an evil.  (Surah Bani Isra'il, 32)

 See, Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala did not say do not commit adultery.  Rather, he says, do not go near the edge of adultery.  Think about what God means to us.

 Mili makes Mitu's head hurt by saying the same thing over and over again.  He will marry Ronnie where it is forbidden.  There is nothing wrong with having a little knowledge before marriage.  Mitu can't explain this simple thing to Mili.  It's like this old-fashioned type of girl.

 Not only love is haraam, music is also haraam to Mili.  Mitu can't listen to any of his favorite songs.

 Mitu has to do all the work invisible to Millie.  Mili is not late to listen to the policy whenever she gets a chance.  So when Millie is out or after she falls asleep at night, she talks to Ronnie in a video call.

 Mitura doesn't do anything to please her boyfriend but it is not time to please Allah.

 Mili prays for Mitu's guidance in every prayer.  Mitu has not returned to the hostel yet when the Maghrib prayers are over.  Surely she has gone somewhere with her boyfriend.  Millie is very tense when Mitu is late to return.  No matter how dangerous the girl is on the road during the day, she stays out in the evening and outside.  Mitu, however, does not consider himself any less than a boy.

 The knock on the door interrupted Millie's thoughts.  As soon as the door was opened, Mitu and a few older sisters entered the hostel room.  Shopping bag in Mitu's hand.

  He took a shirt out of the bag and started showing it to everyone.  Everyone commented was very nice.  It would be nice to have Ronnie, but the price is a little too high.  Mitu is buying the shirt with a little price to give as a gift on Ronnie's birthday.

 

 Everyone is laughing and talking about each other's boyfriends.  Whose boyfriend loves whom more, who has received so many gifts, how many words are sparkling about this.

  Millie was very upset at their story.  They don't think of sin as sin.  At one point he left the room.  I don't like these stories of Huzurni

 Saying this, everyone started laughing at Mili.

 On Ronnie's birthday, Mitu wore a beautiful blue sari.  Ronnie says Mitu looks like a fairy when he wears a sari.  Mitu came out after spraying strong perfume.  Millie said it might be too late to return.

  Mili couldn't even say anything. She stood and watched Mitu leave for a while.  After a while he locked the door and lay down quietly.

 Mitu has not returned yet at 12 o'clock at night. But Mitu will not return to the hostel today!  Mili is sweating in tension.  Today it seems that the power of the fan has decreased.  After a long wait, Millie fell asleep.

 I haven't worn anything since morning.  I don't know if Mitu has returned yet, he is in some unknown danger.  Phone and switch off Mitu from last night.

 When Mitu returned at 11 am, Millie started asking a thousand questions.  Mitu left without answering any question.  Not understanding anything, Millie sat quietly.

 As soon as Mitu came back fresh, Millie started asking questions again.  Where were you yesterday, why aren't you saying something?  You know how much tension I've been in for you since yesterday.

 Mitu was annoyed and replied, "Are you asking a foolish question?"  Still do not understand where I was?  So listen, I was with Ronnie yesterday.  Do you understand this time or do you have to break it down?  I love Ronnie so much I couldn't let go of his whims tomorrow.

 Mili was not ready to hear that.  He sat down on the floor.  Then he said, but you do not have any love for God, Mitu?  Ronnie love you could have committed such a big sin?

 Why are you saying that I will marry Ronnie.  And I love God.  I am no longer an atheist, so why shouldn't I love Allah?

 Millie stood up and said, "Where is the proof that you love God?"

 The proof that you love Ronnie is that you are constantly going through it, fulfilling all his desires, taking care of him.  You can't drop any of his words.  But you do not care about the prohibition of any command of Allah.  God calls to him 5 times a day, you do not respond to his call once.  If you make a mistake, tell your boyfriend to apologize, but if it becomes a sin, do not repent once.

 The Qur'an speaks of 100 lashes for adulterous men and women.  If you repent, maybe Allah will forgive you.  But there is no remorse in you even if you have sinned.  I have nothing to do with you from today.

  Mitu sat down with his head bowed at Millie's words.  Mitu himself feels very bad but out of some kind of compulsion, he did such a thing to prove his love to his boyfriend.

 

 Millie left the hostel that afternoon and went home.  Mili did not speak to Mitu before leaving.

 Everything seems to be empty as Mili is not in the hostel.  Mitur is not going well during the day.

 After many days, Millie returned to the hostel today.  Although he could return a few days later, he had to leave the exam.

 As soon as he returned to the room, Mitu grabbed Mili and started crying.  When asked why he was crying, Mitu told him that Ronnie was no longer the same.  He is ignoring me.  I know she is pregnant but she is not getting married.  Ronnie is telling me to have an abortion.  Am I a murderer?  Kill your own unborn child?  How do I show my family this face? I couldn't even commit suicide a few times.  I don't want to die with so many sins.

 Millie wiped away Mitu's tears.  That's what Mitu was supposed to be.  Because love is a subtle snare of the devil.  It starts with a little wandering, chatting and till the room date.  Unwanted children are born.  Dustbin, sewer is the place of harvest of that sin.  Or the embryo is destroyed by applying medicine.  Men do not want to take the burden of that unwanted child for fear of society.  The responsibility of the wife, the responsibility of the child, they do not have the masculinity to talk about marriage at home.

 Mitu started crying louder at Millie's words.  He said I should die.

 

 Mili said in a calm voice, what is the solution when he dies?  Who will answer God after death?  All must be resolved before he dies.

 Mitu asked in a moaning voice, do you have any solution?  Millie said I have no solution.  One person has the solution to all the problems.  He is God.  Who is Gafurur Rahim.  You must return to Him.  You have to ask him for a solution.  He was ashamed to give it back when his hands were thin to him.  Tell him openly what you want.  He is the only one who can help you in this difficult time.

 Mitu said, "I did not call Allah at the right time. Now that I am suffering from so many sins, will Allah forgive me?"  How can I ask Allah for help where I have disobeyed Him day after day.

 Is there anyone other than Allah who will forgive you and help you? If the righteous can only ask Allah, then to whom will the sinners ask?

 The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said: Every one of the children of Adam is a sinner, and it is better for him to repent. (Ibn Majah 4251, Tirmidhi 2499)

 Allah the Almighty says in the Qur'an: Will they not repent to Allah and ask Him for forgiveness?  GOD is Forgiver, Most Merciful.  (5-64)

 Allah further says: Whoever repents, believes and does righteous deeds, then Allah will change their sinful deeds into good deeds.  GOD is Forgiver, Most Merciful. (Surat al-Furqan, 60)

 Allah has many times in the Qur'an identified Himself as the Forgiving, the Most Merciful.  So there is nothing to be disappointed Mitu.  No matter how many sins we have, God's mercy is many times greater than that.

 A smile appeared on Mitu's face.  She knows what she needs to do now.

 Mitu has returned to his Lord. He has decided that he will not kill the one who is going to come in his stomach and will not throw him in the dustbin.  She seeks a good judgment from God for her child.  Now he regularly performs tahajjud and realization.  He has deleted all the pictures uploaded on Facebook.  Millie is very happy with her return.

 Mitu has been ill for several days.  Vomiting again and again.  He refuses to go to the doctor.  He never leaves the room.  It is feared that there is a baby in the womb. Nowadays, Mili takes care of Mili like her own sister.  Even though he is so ill, Mitu does not perform prayers at one time.  Going to prostrate, he started crying profusely.  Milio cried occasionally at her cries.

 Today, Mitu did not raise his head after prostrating in the Asr prayer on Friday.  He left the world in response to the call of the Lord. On the news of his death, his family came and took away his body.

 Mili could not cry at the beautiful death of Mitu.  He cried only thinking of himself.  In such a short time Mitu was fortunate enough to die in prostration.  Millie will be lucky to die such a beautiful!

 Later one day, however, Ronnie came looking for Mitu.  But by then it was too late.

 What a beautiful solution to Mitu's big problem Allah gave only to get back to him.

 Mitu explained that no matter how great the sin and no matter how big the problem, the only solution is to return to Allah and seek help from Him.

 Not getting a job? - The solution is to return to God.  Rely on him.

 Not getting married? - The solution is to return to God.

 Addicted to pornography?  -The solution is to return to God.

 Adultery?  -The solution is to return to God.

 

 Depression? - The solution is to return to God.

 (La hawla wala quwata illa billah-we have no strength / ability to do good deeds and refrain from bad deeds without the help of Allah).

 Haram Relationship