Satan Trap: The Mantra of Piercing

[1] - "Assalamu Alaikum. Help me."  The girl asks us for help through this message.  In the return message I say, "Walaikum Assalaam. How can we help?"

 Then the girl tells us about her problem.  According to the girl's commentary, the essence of which is this,

 "I kept getting love proposals for a few months after I was admitted to college. But, I didn't like any of the people who sent me proposals. What's more, I wasn't interested because I knew love was forbidden in Islam before marriage. Suddenly, a senior brother on our campus proposed."  In college, the guy had a good reputation. I liked him too. But he had some bad habits. He got drunk and didn't pray. That's why I didn't do it. Then he asked me why I rejected him. I said, 'You smoke.  Do not pray regularly.

 Then my brother told me some of his troubles, I felt sorry for him and said yes in love.  Originally, the brother said, 'If I give support, he will give up intoxication, grow a beard, and be regular in prayers.'  I went about with the goal of making him human from inhuman.  But, in the end, trying to make him human, on the contrary, I have become inhuman!  Now I want to get out of Jinnah and repent.  How, what to do?  Please help. "

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 This story is about a boy.  The boy had been following the religion since childhood.  Sadly, though, the boy fell into Satan's trap.  According to the boy, "My best friend and I lived in the same mess room. But, I was saddened to see that my friend was involved in haram! I would be shocked to think that if my dear friend dies now and does not get a chance to repent, then so be it."  He is hellish. So, I tried to explain to him and pray for him. One day Allah gave him the right understanding. But, the friend did not want to leave the girlfriend's relationship.  But, a few days later I fell in love with that girl, then the girl also left my friend. Our haraam love is going on! What should I do? "

 [3]

 This problem is seen online, offline, everywhere.  Like the siblings of those two incidents, many religious children are falling into the trap of Satan in this way.  But the question here is, "Why is this happening? A brother or a sister who has grown up in a religious family, has been refraining from making love for years, knowing that it is haraam. Why are they coming at one time and getting involved in haraam?  Before we know the answer, let's go through a cycle from the beginning of human creation.  Imam Ibn Kathir (may Allah have mercy on him) wrote, "After Allah created Adam (peace be upon him), he put drowsiness in his eyes and he fell asleep. Then Hawa AH was created from his left rib.  Then he felt the pull of love in his heart because of his blood and flesh. Then Adam asked him, "Who are you? Why - or you were created?"

 Mother Hawa A. replied, “I am a woman.  I have been created as the cause of your peace. ”  [Tafsir Ibn Kathir: 2/35]

 As Allah says, "And among His Signs is that He has created for you wives from among yourselves, that you may find peace in them."

 [30:21]

 Now you may understand, for what reason do we fall in love with someone who is mahram in Gair or why do we feel a pull towards someone of the opposite sex?  This is the main reason.  From the beginning of creation, women have been created from Paradise for the peace of men.  When Adam was alone in Paradise, Mother Eve was created as his companion to remove that loneliness and loneliness.  However, because we have blood and goshto in our body, it is normal to be attracted to someone of the opposite sex.  Now if someone says, ‘I don’t wake up’.  Then it must be understood that he is either masculine or has lied.  Because, naturally, creatively we have been given such tension, interest.  Based on this, human civilization has survived in the world.  There is no way to deny it.  However, this attraction to certain people is not created in a hurry.  Satan will slowly and cunningly create this attraction by plotting against you.  The question is, "How does Satan conspire against us?"  To find out, let us recall the two siblings mentioned above.  Think of the sister in the first case, who as a family maintained a full screen with the basics of religion from a young age.  Didn't even accept multiple love offers before.  If that senior brother of the college had first come to the sister and sent her an adultery proposal, the girl would not have agreed even in the slightest.  Similarly, in the second case, if the girlfriend of Deeni's brother's friend came first and offered haraam love to that brother, who was always scared and worried about his friend's haraam relationship, would he agree to the offer of love for himself?  Answer: Certainly not.  So Satan came first and showed his greed for good by plotting against them.  Which is called, "Satan's deception in good tune."

 The girl thought, 'With my support or with my help someone leaves the bad path and the good path actually benefits me.  In return I will get goodness. '  In this way the religious boy also thought, 'Just as I was able to keep my friend away from haraam love, so if I can keep that girl away from haraam love, what is the harm?'  The two of them had thoughts or motives but were seemingly honest.  Both of them agreed to help for the purpose of religious Daoah.  But they fall into Satan's trap.  The best human psychology in the world is the devil.  But he does not plot all the children of Adam with the same arrow.  That is, he gives as much as he needs.  For example, in Paradise, when Allah married Adam and Eve and said, “O Adam!  You and your wife live in Paradise and eat from wherever you wish in Paradise.  And do not go near that tree. "[2:35]

 From then on, they had a penchant for the tree, curiosity and interest.  But then Satan also understood their state of mind.  That is why Satan did not come and tell them to go to the forbidden tree or to eat the fruit of the tree.  Rather, Satan first showed false greed and said, "O Adam, I will not tell you about a tree from which eternal life and everlasting kingdom can be obtained."  [20: 120] This was his first hat.  Then he said, "Your Lord forbids you to go near that tree, lest you become angels or gain everlasting life."  [6:20] This was his second hat. Amad and Hawa fell into the trap of Satan and we know the next story.

 Notice that Satan first aroused greed and lied.  Then also showed false hope.  Basically that’s how it works.  As Allah says, "He gives them false promises and gives them various hopes. Indeed, Satan's promise is nothing but deception."

 [4: 120]

 In this way, Satan seeks out everyone's interests and wants and then throws them away.  This means that Satan will try to trap him in the same way that he can be deceived by hope and deception.  There are many people who did not pray before.  Now he prays and says to others, 'You know, my BF / GF is very good.  I pray and wear hijab on his words.  Some people say, 'I haven't worn pants under my ankles since I said' O '.'  Someone says, 'We love but purpose is great.  I will get married later.  Besides, we don't say any obscene things, we don't even hold each other's hands.  We help each other in practicing the religion.  I wake up the time of Tahajjud. ' All this is nothing but Satan's false deception.

 We know the story of the God-fearing Barsisa of the Children of Israel.  Where people have been worshiping Allah all their lives.  However, Satan also gradually trampled on him. So, Satan, seeing everyone's interest and curiosity, casts a net, and we step into it.  We are always a little more attracted to forbidden things.  That is why Allah did not forbid Adam and Eve to eat the fruit of that tree;  Instead, he forbade them to go near the tree.  Because, our Lord, who is our Creator, knows very well where our weakness is!  Thus, he has commanded us, "Whether openly or secretly, do not approach pornography."  [6: 151] He also said, "Do not approach adultery. Indeed, it is an indecent act."  [18:32]

 You see, we are forbidden to approach pornography.  Because the Creator knows the place of our weaknesses very well.  He knows that we will be immersed in obscenity and adultery.  And going to pornography here means talking to someone of the opposite sex, hanging out.  First exchanging greetings, then exchanging picks, watching live, then holding hands and so on.  The last final stage of the stumbling block will occur.  As the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, "When a man is alone with a (non-mahram) woman, Satan himself appears as the third of them."  [Tirmidhi: 1172]

 The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) also said, "The zina of the eyes is to look (at something forbidden) and the tongue is zina is to say (something forbidden).  [Bukhari: 6159]

 See, first you will commit adultery by showing something forbidden or Ghair-mahram.  Then the tongue will commit adultery by making love, then by hand and foot and then the mind will desire something forbidden.  In this way, the last place of shame will implement that forbidden desire.  At first no attraction will be created.  It would seem that you are doing a good job, giving da'wah to someone or bringing someone to the path of religion.  You will not even think for a moment that you are standing on the brink of destruction by inviting your heart to the call of religion.  Basically these are nothing but false hopes and deceptions of the devil.  After a while, that gair-mahram will start to feel good.  Unnecessary conversations will continue, the mind will want to take care.  At some point, that love will become love and love will become adultery.

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 So long just discussed, why we, how to fall in love?  This time I think we should say something to avoid falling in love or to avoid the deception of the devil.  First, taqwa must be achieved.  Because, if there is fear of Allah in the mind, I cannot be involved in haraam if the mind wants.  Most importantly, there is no better way to escape from the current of sedition than taqwa.  For, if we follow the path of taqwa, in return Allah will bring us out of this difficult situation by His miraculous power.  As he said, "Whoever fears Allah, Allah will give him a way out."  [75: 2]

 Second, we must love God more.  For, the more love there is for the Lord, the more hatred there will be for the forbidden.  In addition, the Qur'an claims, "Believers love God the most."  [2: 185]

 Thirdly, if you can afford it, get married as soon as you reach adulthood and if you can't afford it, fast.  The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, "If you marry, your eyesight will be lowered, your private parts will be protected, and fasting will suppress your sexual ability."  [Bukhari: 4695]

 Fourthly, to make every effort to offer 5 daily prayers with Jamaat.  For, the Qur'an claims, "Surely prayer forbids indecency and evil deeds."  [29:45]

 The fifth thing is to wear Islamic clothes.  It will practically give many benefits, will help to subdue the nafs.  You can't walk around the street or park with your daughter if you want to, after wearing Punjabi, you can't go to the cinema, watch movies, eve-tease girls on the street, smoke cigarettes or urinate standing up.  If you wear Islamic clothes, you will be saved from many such sins.

 The sixth thing is to take care of the eyes and the place of shame.  Basically, we get involved in pornography because we don't take proper care of our eyesight.  This is the first step of adultery.  It is possible to avoid many sins if we can control it.  That is why Allah says, "O Prophet, tell the believing men and women to guard their sight and their place of shame."

 [24: 31-32]

 The seventh thing is to have honest company.  Basically, this is the aspect in which we are most careless.  However, it is true that we are most affected by the behavior of our friends.  Therefore, it is said, 'Heaven with the righteous, destruction with the wicked.'  This is like a replica of the words of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him).  He said, "The likeness of a righteous companion and a dishonest companion is as the likeness of a perfumer and a blacksmith's happer. The perfumer may give you something, or you may buy something from him, or you may get perfume from him. And the blacksmith's happer may burn your clothes."  Or you'll get a bad smell from him. "

 [Bukhari: 5137] Besides, Allah Almighty has commanded us to be the companions of the truthful.  [9: 119]

 The eighth thing is to remember the grave and the punishment of the Hereafter again and again.  Always remember that even if I do an atomic amount of evil in the eyes of the people in the world, it will be shown in the form of a video on the Day of Resurrection. "[99: 7]

 Number nine is especially for girls.  Dear Sister, where the Qur'an has included your voice in the Aurat, it has been declared that,

 Or the man may have worries. "[33:32] So, how do you call your BF by a lot of greedy nicknames? Go on making love for hours on end?

 The word number ten is also for girls.  O sister, where the Qur'an commands you, "Do not go out on the streets dressed like the women of the age of ignorance."  [33:33] How do you get out of the parlor, how do you upload your picks to Facebook?  Don't you know that seeing such pictures of you causes war in the souls of the brothers who follow the religion?  Don't you know that among the seven greatest tribulations for mankind in this world, which have been adorned and adorned, the Qur'an is the first to mention women?  [3:14]

 Eleventh and last thing, in order not to fall into the trap of Satan in all circumstances, one should pray to Allah more and more and seek help.  In addition, the Qur'an should be studied more.  Because, "The heart of the believers melts at the recitation of the Qur'an."  [6: 2] At the same time, "the restless mind must be calmed by the remembrance of Allah Almighty."  [13:26] And a lot of apology should be read.  Because, "it will be possible to get heavenly help."  [71: 10-11]

 I will end the writing, 1400 years ago today, with a terrible question from Allah, "O man! What has deceived you about your great Lord?"  [72: 7]

 "Satan's Trap: The Mantra of Piercing."