Modern Islamist women and men reluctant to have children!

 Women and men who are reluctant to have more children are against human nature and religion;  Islam and the teachings of its Prophet (pbuh) are of course opposed.  One of my four children became an Islamist brother.  What does it mean to have so many children in this modern day urban life? "  - Such a feeling.

 The desire to have more children has always been part of human nature.  One of the things that Allah has mentioned in the Qur'an that is attractive to human beings is the abundance of wealth as well as more children.  As Allah says,

 "Women, children, stacked gold and silver have been made attractive to man, .................৷"  [3:14]

 Noah (peace be upon him) mentioned in the benefit of repenting his people and returning to Allah that Allah will increase their wealth as well as their children.

 "He will help you with wealth and children, and will make for you gardens and will make rivers flow."  [71:12]

 In the Qur'an, Allah has said about this in many other places.  This is the nature of human nature.  Even in the age of ignorance, people were proud of their wealth and children.  Allaah mentions the arrogance of Walid ibn Mughirah in Surah Qalam and Surah Muddaththir.

 "Because he was wealthy and the father of many children."  [68:14]

 "Leave me and the man whom I have created alone. I have given him abundant wealth and many more sons to be with forever."  [74: 11-13].

 In the last half of the last century, various campaigns have been launched in our countries to curb population growth by blaming overpopulation as an obstacle to development.  The slogan has been taught that "two children are enough, boy or girl."

 One of our class of Islamist brothers and sisters has also melted away with this slogan.  But Muhammad (pbuh) said to have more children so that on the Day of Resurrection he can be proud of our number.  He said, "Marry those women who are loving and have more children, because I will be proud of your majority."  [Nasa'i and Abu Dawood]

 Allah has provided for every one of your children.  With the abundance of children, the abundance of your sustenance will happen, Insha'Allah!  The condition is to adopt taqwa.  Because taqwa has to do with the abundance and blessings of the believer's sustenance.

 Relationships are never perfect when there are only two boys and girls.  In most cases, the children of such families become self-centered.  Think about you or your fathers, uncles and aunts.  How many of them were siblings!  There is no scope of relationships?  Aren't my hearts filled with joy at the abundance of my uncles, aunts, cousins?

 More children is never a problem, if you live a life of piety, otherwise one will poison your life.  The high number of children of the pious has never been a problem for them and their children.  Although they are not in abundance, they have lived a happy life full of abundance in their hearts.

 Many countries in the world are working hard to increase their population.  They have to rely on immigration.  Think of Singapore as a small city-state.  The population density is many times higher than in Bangladesh.  They do not produce any food of their own, they even supply drinking water to Malaysia.  Even then they accept immigrants.

 Islamisto brothers, please come out of the narrow-mindedness and enter the breadth of Islam.  Be eager to have more and more children.  Do not create a huge age gap between the two children.  Don't be interested in women who are not interested in conceiving and raising children, and don't marry them.  Beer has previously talked to his prospective wife about whether she is interested in having more children.  If you are not interested, reject him.  Follow the hadith of the Prophet (peace and blessings of Allah be upon him), "Marry those women who are loving and have more children, for I will be proud of your majority."

 Author - Abu Samihah Sirajul Islam