Youth problems and solutions - Shariah-based discussions of making money for women and men

When it comes to Shariah-based discussions of making money for women, we never forget to mention that it is inappropriate for women to coexist with men.  But how much have I thought about the education that the secular education system acquires that qualifies women to earn money, the education that in most cases comes through the coexistence of men and women?  How much have I tried to take the appropriate initiative to discuss?  Guys with co-education which causes free mixing, various kinds of wickedness including haraam relationship.

 Since prevention is better than cure, it is essential to raise the issue of changing co-educational activities before issuing a fatwa for co-employment between men and women.

 There was a time when the number of girls in higher education institutions was negligible.  Over time, that picture has taken a different form today, which, while increasing the level of relative indicators of progress, is on the other hand corrupting society through sedition.  And we can understand how harmful fitna is for the society only through a verse of the Qur'an

 And fitnah is worse than killing (Surah Al-Baqara, verse 191).

 Fitrat has attracted people to the opposite sex in the past.  Young men and women will also be given the opportunity of free association and coexistence and they will not be attracted to each other. Isn't this a denial of Fitrat?

 Narrated from Usamah Ibn Zayd

 The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said, “I have not left any fitnah for men that is more harmful to men than women.  (Sahih Bukhari, 5096)

 The virtue of co-education that we have introduced, inspired by Western culture, can be gauged from the offensive scenes of school and college students in the park during class time.  A sample of which

 Police have arrested more than two hundred students in Kushtia after their parents were released on bond (Bangladesh Today, September 12, 2019).

 Just what is school college?  Free mixing, illicit love is very common in higher education institutions.  Viral scenes of kissing in public on the TSC premises of Dhaka University, the highest educational institution of the country, extreme obscene pictures and videos of Khulna University's Rag Day, having children in the trunk of Jahangirnagar University hall do not give any idea about the sanctity of higher education places?

 Abominable deeds like Live Together and so-called are common to many highly educated people.  What is the consequence of the hut?

 Can you tell me what I mean by bringing a few facts to the fore?  There must be some problems. But does the problem just end here?  What is happening as a result of free mixing?

 Through common interactions on various issues, from friendship to haram relationships to live together, girls are losing their precious resources, their chastity.  These are constantly driving them away from God.  As far as general morality is concerned, it is disappearing from them today.  We are unaware of the extreme horror of the worldly consequences of all this.  Falling in love, listening to music, talking for hours at night, thinking of the sky and the sky in dreams, drowning in the sea of ​​imagination, even when you get temporary happiness, when you face reality?

 Then there are career ruin, frustration, depression, drug addiction to suicide.  An example of which is:

 Islamic University (IU) student boyfriend commits suicide by hanging himself and another jumps under train (Jugantor, August 10, 2016)

 Many of the well-known public university suicides last year included love stories.

 On top of that, delicious and juicy talk about girls in the circle of friends gives birth to ideas like rape myths.  All of this gradually leads them into the blue world where the wickedness like masturbation starts which leaves the future marital life in extreme crisis.

 "It's a matter of degree, more like dosage," said Mary P. Koss, a professor of public health at the University of Arizona.

 Being in contact with girls leads to push after dose which creates an attitude that increases the risk factor for rape even though there are many reasons behind rape.  Proof of which

 The student has complained of rape in the library of Khulna University's (very) Fine Arts Institute after taking sleeping pills (Jagonews, July 22, 2019)

 There are so many incidents behind us that we don't even know about.  And sexual harassment, obscene comments are nothing there.  Many girls also feel comfortable enjoying these, feeling the credit of their own beauty.

 So much has happened around us.

 Let's take a look at the statistics of the western countries that are listening to our message of freedom, showing their life as an ideal and brainwashing them.

 The National Sexual Violence Resource Center of the United States, founded by the Pennsylvania Coalition Against Rape, informs us:

 ** 20-25% college students and 15% male students are victims of forced intercourse while studying in their college.

 ** 26% of college students experience disagreeable sexual experiences in one way or another

 Robin Hattersley Gray, Editor-in-Chief of Campus Safety Magazine, in an article on March 5, 2016 (The Sexual Assault Statistics Everyone Should Know) quotes the following figures from various sources:

 ** 20-25% of women are victims of rape or attempted rape in their college life (Source: U.S. Department of Justice)

 ** The latest and second year girls in college are at a higher risk of sexual abuse.  Of those who reported experiencing forced sex, 74% said it happened within the first 4 semesters of their own campus (Source: An Examination Of Sexual Violence Against College Women).

 ** Female students in the mess are 3 times more likely to be raped and female students in hostels are 1.4 times more likely to be raped than those in the home (Source: Correlates Of Rape while Intoxicated in a National Sample Of College Women)

 ** 30% of college students think of suicide after rape (Source: Warshaw, Robin, 1994)

 ** 1 out of every 5 high school students is sexually abused by their boyfriend.

 The victim.

 ** The figures that have been found are only half.  Because more than half did not tell anyone about the 'rape on campus' incident.  (Source: U.S. Department of Justice)

 The Stop Street Harassment also reports that 56% of sexual harassment has taken place at the institution.  30% before 12th class and 16% in varsity college.

 I hope that the truth or reality of their big words has become an idea.

 Now let's see through a research what is happening to those who are coping with productivity / intellectual development through co-education !!

 Oliver Holz of the University of Amsterdam in the Netherlands and Kristof de Witte of the University of Maastricht conducted the study, with more than a hundred students aged 13-14 at one school.  They were divided into 4 groups - one for boys only, one for girls only, two mixed.  Classes were taken with the same teacher on the same topic, tests were taken.  It was found that the motivation (understanding of the subject, retention and application of the subject) was mixed in the boys group only and more than in the girls group.

 And what is happening in the case of girls?  When you go to varsity, you forget to take class books, but don't forget to reveal them in front of others by putting on make-up.  It is as if the beauty pageant of the girls is involved in various programs.  And of all these, only the victims know how terrible that environment is for those who practice the religion or who want to return to the religion.  Hijab niqab for girls, beard-Punjabi for boys, insults.

 Turn them into a special category with different tags.  Presentation, lab work, team task in different situations, but it seems that it is not possible to avoid free mixing.

 The solution now ??

 The sad thing is that there are so many videos on YouTube about whether women can get a job, but the learning environment for this job is what I said at the beginning, 2/3 videos about it !!!  There is no strong discussion!

 Without any proper solution, we want to house women as if fitna is only for women, not for men.  The need for women's education and the importance of women's income and economic security in today's capitalist society are not to be overlooked.

 So the first thing to do is to solve it

 Separate educational institutions for men and women, separate shifts even if not possible.  If the initiative of a separate organization is taken, separate employment will be created in sha Allah.

 Ensuring the provision of Shariah veil for men and women.

 To present this issue seriously in the upper house through strong discussion in the scholarly community.

 To take initiative by informing the important personalities of the society about this.

  Highlighting the importance of this issue among the common people, taking initiatives to implement various programs.

 And as long as it is not possible to separateঃ

 Going to the academy through the appropriate screen, restraining the eyesight of the boys.

 Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

 O Prophet!  And say to the believing wives and daughters and the believing wives that they should take off some of their cloaks.  This will make it easier to recognize them.  As a result, they will not be harassed.  GOD is Forgiver, Most Merciful.  (Surah Ahzab, verse 59).

 O Prophet!  Tell the believing men to lower their gaze and guard their modesty.  It is better for them.  GOD is fully Cognizant of everything they do.  (Surah Al-Noor - verse 30).

 Friendships with the opposite sex cannot be maintained.  Not to mention talking to the opposite sex just for the sake of necessity.  You have to understand the boundaries of need according to your taqwa.  Allaah says (interpretation of the meaning):

 You do not speak in a soft voice.  Lest a person with heart disease become greedy.  And you say the right thing.  (Surah Ahzab, verse 33).

 Not to be alone with any classmate, not to chat, not to engage in story.  The Prophet (peace and blessings of Allaah be upon him) said:

 "Whenever a man meets a woman in private, the third person is Satan" (Tirmidhi: 2185).

Build religious circles and stay in touch with them.

 Introduce homeschooling where religious education is given priority along with other important issues where employment of religious sisters will also be created.

 Arranging various courses for women online. Freelancing, online food service, teaching of various halal businesses.

 To revive the old art, to take initiative to start work like nakshi kantha, pitha puli, handicrafts, handicrafts, to provide training, to arrange employment for helpless sisters.

 Holding on to faith in the last days will be as hard as holding a burning fire.  The test of faith must be faced step by step.  It is through this difficult test that we can achieve eternal bliss.

 May Allah (SWT) purify us all through these tests.

Amen.